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Tuesday, October 31, 2006

Happy Halloween


The moon is round as a jack '0 lantern;
The trees blow black and bare,
And we go creeping with spooky giggles
Through the chill ghostly air.
Whose shadow is that on the haunted ground?
Who's behind that tree?
Oh, down runs my bad black kitten,
And the shadow was only me.

--author unknown

Monday, October 30, 2006

When Tragedy Strikes

A couple of weeks ago, the unthinkable happened to a two year old boy who lives in a neighboring town. The child was visiting his grandparents. He was outside the house with his grandmother. The grandmother realized that she had left something that she needed in the house. So she decided to step briefly into the house to retrieve the item. I think they were planning on going somewhere in her car. While unattended, the toddler found a loaded pistol lying on the seat of the car. He pointed the gun straight at his own face and fired. The bullet went through his eye into his brain. This unfortunate child has endured grueling hours of surgery at a hospital in Birmingham, Alabama. The doctors were able to save his life, but he is permanently blind in one eye. At the present time he is unable to talk or walk. Years of repeated surgeries and endless physical therapy sessions await the child. His physicians hope that he will regain the ability to walk although there is a strong likelihood that he will have a permanent limp from damage inflicted to the area of his brain that helps control movement. It is also unknown whether he will have full mobility in his hands. Currently there is no way to assess the damage done to his cognitive faculties. Will he have normal intelligence? Will he be learning disabled? Only time will tell.

This is such a senseless, preventable tragedy. I can't begin to fathom why anyone would leave a loaded pistol lying on a car seat in an unlocked car. What a recipe for disaster! Anyone with children or grandchildren should always keep their firearms locked away in a secure place. We're talking common sense here.

Also, two year olds should not be left unattended in a yard or a car even for a couple of minutes. It only takes a few minutes for tragedy to strike, but the after effects last for a lifetime. Please take the time to insure the safety and well being of any innocents in your care. Then if you have a moment to spare, pray for this child and his family. Right now prayer provides the wind beneath their wings on the long road to the child's recovery.

Tuesday, October 17, 2006

Hero Squirrel


During the fall of 2000, I witnessed the most amazing sight. If I hadn't seen it with my own two eyes, I wouldn't have believed it. One Saturday afternoon I walked outside my house. From the corner of my eye, I spied one of my cats named Sonny Boy. Unfortunately, there was also a strange dog lurking nearby in my neighbor's yard.

This dog saw Sonny Boy at the same time that I did. The dog geared up to pounce on Sonny. All of the sudden, a squirrel jumped out of the tree and landed on the dog's back. This scared the dog so badly that he forgot to attack Sonny. That squirrel was an adult, so I don't think it simply fell out of the nest. Know what I think? I think this squirrel saw what the dog was trying to do to Sonny, so the squirrel came to Sonny's rescue.

I had previously witnessed a squirrel teasing Sonny. The squirrel would scamper down a tree whenever it saw Sonny. Using a series of squeaks and chirps, the squirrel would serenade the cat. Sometimes Sonny would become agitated because the squirrel seemed to mock him. This sure footed rodent was careful to remain just out of the feline's reach. When that would happen, Sonny would howl in protest.

The squirrel really seemed to enjoy Sonny's reaction. I often saw the comical rodent swish its tail and chirp in glee as it taunted the feline. In reality, I think the two of them had become buddies. Imagine that! A cat and a squirrel who were friends! Who would believe that?

Well, I suppose one could argue that the squirrel simply fell out of the tree and landed on the dog's back, but I don't think so. That squirrel landing appeared to be a deliberate attack. I have never seen a squirrel attack anything until that day. Frankly, I've never cared much for squirrels until that incident made me a believer. Now I've learned to respect them.

Sunday, October 15, 2006

Ghost Story

I graduated from Huntingdon College some time ago. This church affiliated college is located in Montgomery, Alabama. Anyone remotely acquainted with this institution has probably heard the story about the Red Lady. According to legend, there was a young woman student who committed suicide at the campus sometime in the distant past. Some stories say that the young lady killed herself at the old campus located at Tuskegee. Other stories say that she died on the fourth floor of Pratt Hall at the present campus located in Montgomery. At any rate, the legend claims that the young woman was friendless and had a strange obsession with the color red. Her ghost is said to haunt the campus to this day.

Well, getting back to the olden days when I attended Huntingdon College. During my sophomore year I lived at Pratt Hall. I do recall one fateful night in October when the lights suddenly went out. I was trying to find my way to the end of the hall when suddenly the side hall opaque window glass glowed an ominous red. Then a young woman dressed in a white gown seemed to float up the side stairs. She was holding a candle in her hand. It was like a scene from a horror movie. I screamed and ran down the other direction of the hall. My best friend was with me. We hastily decided to hide inside her room. Never mind the logic with this thinking. If there were a real ghost, it could easily float through the walls of a room, so trying to lock ourselves inside was at best a futile attempt to elude the spook. My friend frantically tried to unlock the door to her room, but I was jumping up and down holding my flashlight, which made it difficult for her to see the keyhole. I finally decided that she was taking too long, and I just knew the ghost was going to get us if we waited any longer, so I made a mad dash for the stairs to the third floor. My friend also made the decision that she didn't want to be left alone on the second floor with the specter from hell, so she grabbed onto my shirt, and up the stairs we ran together. We must have made quite an impression--two young woman screaming and laughing, with the smaller girl hanging onto to the shirttail of the bigger female. The screaming was understandable. We were terrified. However, the laughter might need some explaining. I think our laughter was due partly to nervousness and partly to the subconscious realization that the whole thing was utterly ridiculous.

There was another student on third floor who witnessed the spectacle we were making. She asked, "What is it?"

We yelled back, "We don't know! " Then we raced passed her. She had an astonished look on her face.

Needless to say, we spent the night with some friends who lived on the third floor of the dormitory. When morning arrived, we found out some key information that helped solve the mystery of the spectral appearance that we saw.

There was an electrical outage in the area that lasted for about an hour or so. In the meantime, the fire department came out to investigate a call that someone had made from the cafeteria next door to the dormitory. Of course, the fire engine had its bright red light flashing. That is why the dormitory window appeared to glow red when I shined my flashlight in the window. The girl in white was some hapless student who trying to climb the stairs in the dark. She was dressed in her bed clothes and was carrying a candle since she had no other source of light.

It is amazing how your imagination can get carried away when you think you see something peculiar in the dark. I wonder how many other "ghost stories" have a similar, logical, earth bound explanation. But then that would ruin all the fun if we knew the real source of such sightings.

Such ghost stories abound in the month of Halloween. May each of my loyal readers remain safe and sound during this month. I promise not to do anything rash, although my hubby and I like to walk the dogs through the cemetery at dark. Spooky you say? Nah. The worst thing we have seen is dog poop. There is a greater danger of stepping in a canine hershey bar than there is in having a frightful encounter with a ghost.

Boo!

Tuesday, October 10, 2006

Good News

My sister recommended a dermatologist who was willing to take me on short notice after I explained my situation with the suspicious mole on my neck. I had an appointment last Wednesday. The doctor agreed that the mole needed removing.

Yesterday I received a call from the doctor's office. The mole was benign!

Thanks for everyone's prayers. I am humbled to say the least.